Anxiety Relief Meets Streetwear – Join 1,000s Who Feel the Difference

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Just Amazing

These hoodies are a must in my life I feel lost when I dont wear one so thats why I have 9 so I can never run out

Nicole Mooney
DELUXE STILL ALIVE ULTRA-HEAVY HOODIE
DELUXE STILL ALIVE ULTRA-HEAVY HOODIE
It feels like a hug.

Bought the ultra heavy hoodie for my son. He and his partner work really hard, iand they have one year old so things are pretty stressful. He said the hoodie felt like a hug! Comfortable not restrictive or stifling, just comforting. He said you were aware of the hoody but it was relaxing. I will definitely be buying more x

Michele Lancaster
EASILY DISTRACTED ULTRA-HEAVY HOODIE
EASILY DISTRACTED ULTRA-HEAVY HOODIE
Very comfy hoody

The ultra heavy hoody is very comfy and the best hoody I’ve got. From lounging watching a film to wearing it outdoors - I’m in my own little bubble.

Martyn Geurts
ENERGY ULTRA-HEAVY HOODIE
ENERGY ULTRA-HEAVY HOODIE
Amazing!

Those shorts are soooo confortable and the pockets are deep!
The size I chose is good but I think next time i'll take an S instead of an XS
Thanks a lot for creating all these clothes

Manon
YOUR STORY ISN'T OVER; COMFORT SHORTS
YOUR STORY ISN'T OVER; COMFORT SHORTS
Fantastic service

Bought a lovely mug, great product and super quick delivery. Really love the supportive and motivational emails too. Highly recommended

Diane Arnold
RAINBOW TEDDY MUG
RAINBOW TEDDY MUG
Love!!

I absolutely love my 2 ultra heavy deluxe hoodies!! I'll probably be buying a zip up next!! Plus so cool designs 😍

Saphire Smith
DELUXE FXCK YOUR ANXIETY ULTRA-HEAVY HOODIE
DELUXE FXCK YOUR ANXIETY ULTRA-HEAVY HOODIE
Love Love Love

I'm absolutely in love with this hoodie, i'm so so grateful you ship to NZ i don't know what i would do without this hoodie. My friends keep stealing it too so i might have to get them some as a birthday present. Please keep up the great work and mental health awareness xxx

Danika Woodroofe
TOO MANY THOUGHTS ULTRA-HEAVY HOODIE
TOO MANY THOUGHTS ULTRA-HEAVY HOODIE

Fabulously cozy 🥰🥰🥰

D.T.
FRIENDS WITH NATURE ULTRA HEAVY SWEATSHIRT
FRIENDS WITH NATURE ULTRA HEAVY SWEATSHIRT
Excellent addition to my collection

I love the mug, great value

Corina Drake
RAINBOW TEDDY MUG
RAINBOW TEDDY MUG
The hoodie

The 54321 hoodie is amazing. I love that the reminder is on the sleeve so i can look when i need it. In the middle of anxiety or panic those things are hard to remember so is an amazing reminder

Lyndeelou
5-4-3-2-1 HOODIE
5-4-3-2-1 HOODIE
Soft and comforting

Like a big hug it's so soft and comforting. I've ordered another!

Helen
TEDDY HOODIE
TEDDY HOODIE
Favourite hoodie!!

Absolutely loving my new hoodie. Great customer service, customised to my liking. Over the moon.Thank you 🙏

HELEN MARRIOTT
FRAGILE WINGS HOODIE
FRAGILE WINGS HOODIE
Perfect for the summer weather

Perfect fit and great for the summer weather get many compliments when I wear RTC clothing about the messages on them too

Kirstie Mcauley
I HOPE YOU HEAL CLASSIC TANK
I HOPE YOU HEAL CLASSIC TANK
Super comfy

My new fav to wear really comfy fit great love them

Kirstie Mcauley
ULTRA-HEAVY CARGO JOGGERS
ULTRA-HEAVY CARGO JOGGERS
Lovely Jumper

I bought this jumper for my Mum, who loves it. The quality of the jumper is top notch and the weight is as promised. The message is nicely printed onto the jumper as well. Worth it.

Jasmine Smith
FLOWERS ULTRA-HEAVY HOODIE
FLOWERS ULTRA-HEAVY HOODIE

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OUR STORY

Founded in 2015, Refuse to Conform is more than just a clothing brand—we’re a movement built on self-expression and mental health awareness.

Our mission is to create clothing that not only looks good but also makes you feel good—inside and out.

Whether it’s our ultra-heavy anxiety relief hoodies—crafted with calming, weighted fabric that mimics the soothing effects of deep pressure therapy, helping to activate your body’s ‘rest’ mode and ease anxiety symptoms like a racing heart and muscle tension—or another piece from our collection, each is thoughtfully designed to promote mental health awareness and put your well-being first, helping you feel safe and secure wherever life takes you.

Every piece is genderless, unapologetically authentic, and made for all-day comfort. 

Let your individuality shine in a world where style meets self-care.

We’re with you every step of the way.

Join a community that values comfort, authenticity, and well-being. 

Experience the calming effects of our ultra-heavy hoodies and take the first step toward comfort by activating your ‘rest’ mode today.

Shop now and embrace the soothing comfort of hoodies designed to ease anxiety.

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We want our ultra-heavy anxiety relief hoodies to be available to everyone who needs them — no matter their financial situation. Please select the price point that feels right for you based on your budget and the kind of support you'd like to offer others. Every choice helps and there’s no need to explain your selection.